It’s time to love the reality you live in
Concious Embodiment Bodywork & Coaching
ready for you when you’re ready for change
I will not fix you, for you are not broken.
Instead, through the power of somatic therapy, I will empower you to reclaim your birthright:
Connection.
Choice.
Creation.
Real, pleasure-based, liberation-led, change.
“There are no problems. There are only empowered solutions. Sometimes, change arrives to realign us- it always comes and goes, while dancing with our soul.”
Hi, I'm Kirsty May
Certified Trauma-informed
Somatic Sexologist & Embodiment Coach
“....with a groundwork of ethics, deep curiosity and care for her journey as a life-long learner, responsible peer and colleague and conscientious participant in the wider field of human wellness/wholeness/healing, Kirsty May is a deeply rigorous and enthusiastic practitioner, with a keen mind for theoretical material, while also staying grounded in the practical applications for her clients. ”
I empower you to choose, create and sustain your perfect Somatic Reality.
My therapeutic journey is an invitation to remember and invest in the incredible strength, beauty and creativity that lies within you, and gaining the confidence needed to embody those qualities with unapologetic boldness.
I deeply believe in the power of embodiment to reconnect us with the disconnected and disempowered parts of our inner selves.
My expertise and practice is rooted and expanded by my embodied, lived experience. For this reason, I work exclusively with women and couples.
My easy techniques will have you unlearning all that repressive BS society forced on you, while re-learning self-nurturing, pleasure-based practices our ancestors knew were essential.
This is your safe space to be honest, connect to the present and alchemize your baggage. This is where you become the most confident, resilient, joyful you.
Prepare for big paradigm shifts as we offer up "new" perspectives that are really just a return to your most authentic self. No more playing small - you're about to remember your size...and it's f*cking immense.
As an ADHD & Autistic woman whose special interest is knowledge and research, I have a uniquely large toolkit, bursting with techniques and practices that can support you to create long-lasting, sustainable change in any area you choose - from health to body image, consent, empowerment, sex and relationships, spiritual intellect, finances, unhealed trauma and much more.
My specialist model combines the science of somatics with the art of embodied coaching. As your secular spiritual practitioner, or atheist witch, I bring a wealth of experience and training in somatic embodiment, sexological bodywork, somatic trauma alchemy & the neurobiology of trauma, ADHD coaching, anti-patriarchal empowerment, esoteric & occult mystery schooling, sex magick...but more than that, I possess a fierce commitment to your liberation and a deep trust in your inherent wisdom and wholeness.
In each 1:1 session, you'll be held in a safe and sacred container, where you can show up exactly as you are - with all of your doubts, fears, and desires, without judgement of any kind. Using simple tools such as breath work, authentic movement, body poem and clean language visualization, you'll learn to regulate your nervous system, access your body's wisdom, and expand your capacity for pleasure and power.
In a world that often disconnects us from our bodies and our truth, Somatic Reality offers you a gently guided path back home to yourself. Through a powerful blend of embodiment practices, trauma-informed coaching, and compassionate inquiry, you'll have the opportunity to:
Release limiting beliefs, patterns, and traumas that have been holding you back
Reconnect with your body's natural intelligence and intuition
Discover your true desires, values, and gifts
Cultivate unshakeable confidence, resilience, and self-trust
Align your life with your deepest purpose and fullest expression
You are the expert on your own experience, and within you lies the power to redefine your reality, defy oppression, and reclaim your birthright as an infinitely powerful, inherently wise woman living a life of wild joy and perfect peace.
Do you dare to feel real?
This process, refined through working with a wide variety of clients, is deliberately structured with as much flexibility a possible, designed to build your skills and capacity in a sustainable, empowering way. I have stress-tested so many methods of learning and am constantly innovating and elevating the way I offer this reclamation focused, sacred work.
Think of working with me at Somatic Reality less as a linear progression and more as a spiral of unlearning, releasing, alchemising and reconnecting with your inner power. Together we can commit to as many or as few sessions as required, allowing you the space to set the pace and fully integrate your learning. It's a journey from stress, overwhelm and hurt towards a greater capacity for pleasure, alignment with your inner unbreakable strength, and the deep peace & joy that is your birthright.
While my offerings and prices are carefully costed to be a fair exchange for my expertise and experience, as well as sustainably meeting my business needs, they are designed to be accessible. If you are feel strongly that I am the right practitioner for you but are experiencing life circumstances or difficulties accessing my services, please book a discovery call so we might discuss potential options.
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A 30 minute zoom call where we meet, work out where you want to go and how to get you there.
We'll discuss how somatic coaching can be your catalyst for change, tailored to your unique needs and pace. Together, we'll co-create a provisional plan, outlining the ideal session journey for you, whether that be one-off coaching sessions or a Somatic Reality Blueprint.
Some journeys are longer than others but our aim for your investment will always be based on your intention and desires, never unnecessary commitment.
The aim of our work together is your self-sufficiency, not dependency.
If you're ready for change, book your Discovery Call now. The first step towards your perfect reality awaits. -
This preliminary session is crucial to establishing your needs, goals, and boundaries.
We will discuss your personality, health, life circumstances, current relationships and sexual history to create a safe and secure foundation for future sessions, whether they continue online or eventually transition to in-person work.
This intake process helps ensure that we are both fully aligned and committed in our expectations and approach to create your perfect Somatic Reality. -
Begin working with me at Somatic Reality.
Sessions can be online or in person only, or a mix of both.
All sessions are one hour by default but can be extended to 2 or 3 hours by booking sessions consecutively.
Sessions can include talk, embodiment and sexological bodywork techniques. Any touch based work will be pre-agreed and require a minimum session length of 2 hours. -
You've put the effort in, now it's time to ensure it lasts a lifetime. This session is designed to ensure the insights you've gained and the unconscious disruptors you've overcome won't resurface. It's about celebrating a new normal where your embodied power guides you, no matter what life brings. It’s the mentorship needed to use your concious creation powers for manifesting your ultimate dreams without dropping down the conciousness ladder through overwhelm & boredom to apathy.
Benefits of this session:
Express feedback, gratitude, constructive criticism and honest reflection of your experiences with Somatic Reality
Co-create a daily ritual that sustains your deep sense of self.
Design your own secular tools and rituals that resonate with your truth.
Celebrate and acknowledge just how far you have come.
the process
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It all starts with a spark
…that ignites your inner fire.
Let's find your perfect somatic reality, one session at a time.